Tuesday, June 28, 2011

Anchors of Life

Anchors have many meanings; perhaps the most common meaning is that of a heavy object attached by a cable to a boat and cast overboard to hold the vessel stable and prevent drifting.  While on the boat, it is important to secure the anchor; however, when thrown overboard, it becomes the security.  Each of us needs an anchor; it may be our deep faith in God, our family or a close friend.  It provides great comfort to know it is there for dependence in the time of potential danger; it is also great comfort and gives confidence that we can make it in the most difficult storms of life. 
We have witnessed and perhaps personally affected by many storms of life in the past few months including tornados, fires, draught, floods, and all of us have been affected by the economic conditions in our nation.  One has stated,Amidst the confusion of the times, the conflicts of conscience, and the turmoil of daily living, an abiding faith becomes an anchor to our lives.”1
The writer of Hebrews states, “We have this hope as an anchor for the soul, firm and secure.”  We have a choice to make during the storms of life; we can drift aimlessly and allow the storm to determine our destiny or we can throw out the anchor and then rest in hope and confidence until the storm subsides.   One must also be sensitive to the situations and know when lift the anchor and start the process of moving forward.  This may be entirely out of one’s comfort zone.  We must remember that “comfort zones” are not necessarily “growing zones.”    One writer described taking risks like this: “If you want to walk on water, you must get out of the boat.”2
There are times that the storms of life are so severe that we need to set anchor and there are times that we need to lift the anchor and move forward.  Anchors often become entrenched in the sand or rocks so securely that one must cut the rope and leave the anchor in order to moving toward one’s goal.  It may be less risky to depend on the anchor to hold us steady at all times; however, just floating aimlessly and restricted by the anchor will take us nowhere.          There is a song written that a few years ago entitled, “The Anchor Holds.”  The chorus of that song says:
“I find the great thing in this world is not so much where we stand, as in what direction we are moving: To reach the port of heaven, we must sail sometimes with the wind and sometimes against it, but we must sail, and not drift, nor lie at anchor.”3
The anchor holds, though the ship is battered
The anchor holds, though the sails are torn
I have fallen on my knees, as I faced the raging seas
The anchor holds, in spite of the storm.4
Therefore, I ask, “What is your most important anchor of your life?”  Christ is the firm and sure foundation that will hold one secure in the world of turmoil all around us.

Proverbs 3:5-6 “Trust in the LORD with all your heart; do not depend on your own understanding.  Seek his will in all you do, and he will direct your paths.” NLT



1Thomas S. Monson
2John Ortberg
3 Marjorie Holmes
4 Ray Boltz

Tuesday, June 21, 2011

More Than a Name

As I sat here at the computer this morning thinking about the great times we had with our children and grandchildren over the years, I paused to thank God for the blessings of our family.  We know that fathers do not come with special instructions on how to operate so there are times that we too make mistakes; therefore, it becomes easy to look back and think, “I wish I had…….”  I constantly remind myself that "Yesterday is gone; tomorrow is built on uncertainty and hope; but today is the greatest opportunity to make the best out of life."  Looking back one man stated, “My father used to play with my brother and me in the yard. Mother would come out and say, "You're tearing up the grass." "We're not raising grass," Dad would reply. "We're raising boys."1  We often prioritize what we think is important and sacrifice the things that mean the most to our children.
When our children were small, we had a night of the week set aside for family night.  That was the night when the children made the rules of what to eat, what to do and even how long to do it.  Most often, it was just “fight night with Dad.”  That was one of the most important nights of the week and remembered more than the trips to Florida or the vacations in Washington.  It was the night that Dad reverted to second childhood and once again learned the life-lesson of what it is like to lose a battle.  It was the night that the house organization became secondary and the amount of noise was not an issue.  I think of some words in a song, “Those were the best days of my life.” 
One has written, “Any man can be a father, but it takes a special person to be a dad.”2  What is a real “FATHER?”
F- Faithful person
A – Attentive and always there
T – Teacher and trustworthy
H – Hero who deserves honor
E – Encourager and ever-loving
R – Recreationalist and emphasizes Right-living
       A father is more than a friend to his children; he is God’s personal representative to show all the attributes of God’s love.  Thank God, for fathers who take on the awesome responsibility to pattern their lives after our heavenly Father and realize that future generations are being shaped as they perform the office of The FATHER! 

Ps 112:1-2 “Praise the LORD! Happy are those who fear the LORD. Yes, happy are those who delight in doing what he commands.  Their children will be successful everywhere; an entire generation of godly people will be blessed.”3  NLT


1 Harmon Killebrew
2 Author Unknown
3 Ps112:1-2  NLT